I can be changed by what happens to me but I refuse to be reduced by it. There isn’t a way things should be. There’s just what happens, and what we do.   The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa, the bad things don’t always spoil the good things and make them unimportant. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here, we…